When someone dies, their subscriptions don't necessarily stop straight away. What happens depends on the subscription, how it is being paid and when the bank or provider is told about the death. Some payments may stop when an individual bank account is frozen, but that doesn't necessarily cancel the subscription itself. Families may still need to identify the services being used, contact individual providers and decide what should be cancelled, transferred or dealt with before an account is closed.
A subscription is really just an agreement between a person and a company, sitting quietly in the background, doing its job every month without anyone thinking about it.
That's rather the point of a subscription. It's designed to be forgotten.
Which is exactly the problem when someone dies.
Nobody automatically tells Netflix, the app that renews every month, or the cloud storage service holding ten years of family photos.
Until the relevant bank, card provider or subscription company is told about the death, some payments may continue. Others may fail once an account or card is stopped.
Either way, stopping the payment and actually dealing with the subscription are not always the same thing.
More than most people expect, honestly. It's not just the obvious ones.
Streaming services like Netflix, Disney+ or Spotify are the ones people usually think of first. But there's a lot more sitting quietly in most people's accounts:
Some of these cost a few pounds a month. Individually, that feels harmless.
Add them all up across someone's whole digital life, though, and it can be a genuinely surprising amount of money quietly leaving accounts.
Here's the bit that catches people out.
Nobody keeps a list.
Subscriptions can be scattered across different apps, different email addresses, different cards and sometimes different accounts entirely.
One might be paid from a joint account. Another through an app store. Others might appear on a card statement under a company name nobody in the family recognises.
So when someone dies, their family isn't necessarily looking at one tidy list labelled MY SUBSCRIPTIONS.
They're looking for a trail of small payments and online accounts scattered across someone's digital life.
And nobody ever needed to look for them before.
It feels like it should be, doesn't it?
Cancel the card, job done.
Not necessarily.
Stopping a payment method and cancelling the actual subscription are two different things. Depending on how the subscription is paid, the payment may stop, fail or need to be cancelled separately with the provider.
And even if the money stops leaving the account, that still doesn't tell the family what the subscription was for, whether the account contains anything worth keeping, or whether somebody needs to contact the company.
Closing the door doesn't help much if you never knew there was a room behind it.
This is the part people rarely think about, and it matters.
Before closing or deleting an online account, it's worth pausing.
Some of these accounts hold things that genuinely matter.
Photos stored in a cloud account. Emails that document something important. Files backed up somewhere nobody remembers.
A free account with no subscription attached might feel unimportant, right up until it's the only place a decade of family photos happens to live.
Cancelling a subscription and preserving what's inside it are two different jobs.
It's worth being clear about which one you're actually trying to do before anything gets deleted.
This varies a lot, and it's worth being honest about that rather than pretending there's one simple answer.
Being a spouse, partner or child does not automatically give someone the legal right to log into another person's accounts.
Providers have their own policies and those policies vary. Some companies have a formal process for dealing with an account after someone has died and may require a death certificate or information from the person dealing with the estate. Other providers may have different or more limited processes.
It's also worth knowing that simply sharing, using or guessing someone's passwords isn't necessarily straightforward either and may conflict with a provider's terms.
This is one of many reasons why having some kind of plan in place beforehand can make such a difference. You can read more about what happens to your digital life after death and why planning ahead matters.
Subscriptions are just one corner of what we leave behind digitally.
There's also email, which can be the key to accessing information about many other accounts.
Then there are social media accounts, photographs and videos, cloud storage, devices, online shopping accounts, financial apps and a scattering of logins most of us haven't thought about in years.
Subscriptions tend to be one of the first things people think about because payments may appear on a bank or card statement.
The wider picture is much bigger.
What accounts exist? What information or memories are stored inside them? What would you want to happen to them? And would anybody else even know they exist?
That's your digital legacy.
You don't need to solve your entire digital life this afternoon.
A genuinely useful first step is simply making a list, even a rough one, of the subscriptions and digital accounts you actually have.
Not passwords. Just what exists.
Streaming. Storage. Memberships. Apps. Online services you're still paying for.
That one list alone could save whoever eventually handles your affairs a considerable amount of guesswork.
It's a small thing.
But it's the kind of small thing that can make a real difference to someone else at exactly the point they're least able to go looking for it themselves.
Not necessarily. What happens depends on the provider and how the subscription is being paid. Some payments may stop when an individual bank account is frozen, but this doesn't necessarily close the subscription or online account. Someone dealing with the person's affairs may still need to contact the provider.
Often, but the process depends on the provider and the person's circumstances. A company may ask for evidence of the death and information from the person dealing with the estate. Check the individual provider's bereavement process rather than assuming that knowing the login details gives you authority to access or close the account.
No. Do not put your passwords in your will.
In England and Wales, a will submitted for probate becomes a public document once probate is granted, so it is not a suitable or secure place for passwords, PINs or other sensitive login information.
Instead, keep information about your digital accounts securely and make sure the appropriate person knows where that information can be found.
Start by keeping a simple record of which subscriptions and digital services you use, how they are paid for and where further information can be found.
You don't need to hand everybody your passwords. The aim is to leave enough information for the right person to know what exists and where to start.
Subscriptions are just one small part of your digital life.
My 2-hour Digital Legacy Planning Workshop helps you work through what you have, what could happen to it and what practical steps you can take now, so your family isn't left doing detective work while they're grieving.
We'll look beyond passwords and subscriptions at the wider digital footprint most of us are building without really thinking about it.
Because while you still have a voice, you have a choice about what happens to your digital life too.